‘I’ve tried to raise my daughter with feminist values but I’m struggling with her clothes. What do I say?’ | Leading questions

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‘I’ve tried to raise my daughter with feminist values but I’m struggling with her clothes. What do I say?’ | Leading questions

The cold truth is there’s nothing your daughter can wear to keep her safe, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. So give her the message the rest of the world won’t

I’ve tried to raise my daughter with feminist values but I’m struggling with the clothes she wants to wear. She and her friends all like very tight, very short shorts. It’s great that they’re comfortable enough to wear this kind of clothing (I certainly wasn’t at her age) but I’m concerned it will attract attention she isn’t ready for. She’s 13 and her body has changed fast this year.

When we’re out together I see the looks men have started giving her. She doesn’t seem to notice and while I have tried pointing this out to her, she usually rolls her eyes as if my concern is hypocritical and not for her wellbeing. I know if I try to enforce rules it will make her want to break them. Is there a way for me to make her understand that while women should be allowed to wear whatever they want, at this age she isn’t a woman yet, even though she’s starting to look like one?

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Source : https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/dec/04/ive-tried-to-raise-my-daughter-with-feminist-values-but-im-struggling-with-her-clothes-what-do-i-say